What is rude? By definition, it means “not having or showing concern or respect for the rights and feelings of others.” But what people consider impolite isn”t universal. In fact, it”s entirely subjective.
For instance, what many Americans consider rude, like showing up late, people from other countries consider 100% standard and acceptable.
This is just one of the many ways cultural differences can lead to misunderstandings. And once you see this list of all the ways other cultures think Americans are rude, you”ll see why we don”t always have the best reputation abroad.
1. Laughing loudly or with your mouth open.
Everyone likes a good giggle, but in Japan, laughing with your mouth open and your teeth exposed is seen as extremely rude.
2. Giving a firm handshake.
A firm handshake is usually seen as a good thing in America, but in the Philippines, it”s considered aggressive. I get it; I don”t want my hand to hurt when I”m meeting someone for the first time!
3. Bringing wine to a dinner party.
In Germany, bringing wine to a dinner party can be seen as a slight against the wine that your hosts have in their home. More wine for me later!
4. Cleaning your plate.
Many Americans have been told their entire lives to clean their plates. But this is a no-no in countries such as Thailand and China.
5. Not refusing gifts.
It may seem weird, but in Japan, refusing gifts as they are given to you instead of just accepting them right away is actually part of the ritual of gift-giving.
6. Publicly blowing your nose.
While blowing your nose in public in America isn”t exactly mannerly, it”s seen as downright rude in countries like Japan.
7. Opening a gift in front of its giver.
In America, there are entire events centered around opening gifts (Christmas, showers, birthdays, etc.), but in countries such as China and India, opening a present in the company of the person who gifted it is not okay.
8. Using your left hand.
While being left-handed in America is of little consequence, in many other countries, the left hand is used for…eh-em…certain less-than-clean activities in the restroom.
9. Crossing your fingers.
Crossing your fingers in America is seen as good luck, but in Vietnam, it is seen as a crude symbol for a woman”s privates. So keep those fingers uncrossed!
10. Not wearing a surgical mask in public while sick.
People in the U.S. may think it”s strange when people wear surgical masks in public, but in places like Japan, it is seen as common courtesy to wear a surgical mask while sick to prevent the spread of germs.
11. Whistling in public.
Whistling is a fun, carefree activity done while walking around town, but in countries like Haiti, it is actually seen as uncouth to whistle or make a show of yourself.
12. Speaking with your hands in your pockets.
Casually having your hands in your pockets isn”t really a problem in America, but don”t do this in Korea. It is seen as disrespectful.
13. Being on time.
While being fashionably late is a thing in some social circles, Americans generally like to be on time. Many Europeans, on the other hand, actually see being on time as rude. If you show up right on time for a dinner party, it”s comparable to showing up an hour early in America.
In many European and Asian countries, tipping is not only unnecessary, but it is also seen as rude. So make sure you know if tipping is acceptable before you leave something extra for your bartender or waiter.
15. Chewing gum in public.
In Switzerland, France, Luxembourg, and Singapore, chewing gum in public is seen as socially unattractive and rude. If you chew gum in these places, try to be inconspicuous.
(via Mental Floss, Travel Facts)
Well, in case you weren”t stressed about making travel plans enough already, now you have these things to worry about. At the end of the day, though, there will always be little things lost in translation that might seem rude when traveling. The best thing to do is to try your hardest to just be respectful.